Hye world ! Disebabkan Fyqa dengan Azril sekarang sama-sama busy kan. Err kadang-kadang tuu rasa nak gaduh pown ada tapi Fyqa elakkan. Huh, tamao kehilangan dia :) So Fyqa bagi tips macam mana nak jadi girlfriend yang baik. Hari nih nak speaking lagi, nak berlatih untuk pergi China nanti, hikhok, ennjjoooyyy reading :)
1. Take it slow
Okay jangan tergopoh gapah, be a girl with cool attitude girls :) Don't push him to call you his girlfriend after a couple of dates. Don't start talking about marriage and children before you've even met his friends. Eeew tolong lah elakkan, tapi Fyqa suka sembang pasal kawen dengan Azril, bhahahah.The beginning is a precious time when you both feel like you're walking on air just because you're together. Eventually this phase will pass and you'll hit bumps in the road that will test your relationship and during those times you'll both look back to the memories from the beginning to remember why you're in it. So don't bring up any issues prematurely and make the beginning of your relationship stressful. Paham kan? Nanti tak pasal-pasal gaduh pulak, hikhik. Let it take its natural course. Cherish your time together , it's the only time this person will be new to you. That doesn't mean you should be an obsesive girlfriend and crave every second of his time. Relax, be patient, enjoy :)
2. Start off on the right foot
Okay firstly be honest. While being honest to your guy is very important, to the point of being paramount, it is equally important that you are honest with yourself. If you overreact or make a mistake, you can acknowledge your error and apologize. If you're feeling vulnerable or upset, you can sort through your feelings and verbalize them to him in an accusing way. And the most important thing here is that you will open your feelings as much as possible. For example, if someone crushes you, tell him immediately for you two not to have problems as much as possible. Cecece, Fyqa selalu macam nih lah, terlebih jujur kot. Bhahahaha. Selagi boleh jujur, jujur lah yer wahai perempuan :)
Also please have a positive attitude. If everything you say around him is a criticism or an attack, he will not look forward to seeing you. However, you don't always have to agree with him just because he is your boyfriend. Tactfulness is a better strategy in mature relationships. No matter what, have a good sense of humor. Have inside jokes together. Be spontaneous. Be happy girls. Okay, lelaki sangat rimas kalau girlfriend dia perangai buruk. Contoh lah kan nak keluar dengan kawan tak bagi, nak main futsal tak bagi, pokoknya semua tak bagi so diorang rasa terkongkong and feels better single. So sebagai perempuan tolong belajar paham lelaki, they all likes freedom :) Nanti dah kawen kau berkepit lah dengan dia 24hours okay :)
3. Respect Him
Hey, let him live his life. Please girls don't try to control your boyfriends. Itu hanya memburukkan keadaan. If you feel entitled to all of his time and attention, learn how to not be a absessive girlfriend. Don't be an "over protective girlfriend" let him go out without him feeling watched. Remember that he doesn't need you for everything and that you are separate people as well as a couple. When he needs some space, don't take it personally. But do make sure he knows that you are always there for him. Haa macam nih kan sweet :) Kau tak payah lah nak berkepit sangat , orang pun muak tengok . okay ?
4. Pay Attention to him
Paling bagus kalau kita tahu apa kegemaran dia, take an interest in his interests. Remember what he likes to do and what he likes to talk about. You don't have to act like you love his hobbies, but at least try to understand why he's such a fan. If he loves a band, try to understand why. If he just loves to be playful and immature, remember that it might just be his way of releasing stress. No much words to say :)
5. Be yourself
Okay penting tolong jadi diri sendiri, jangan berpura-pura or what so ever lah. Don't lie to impress him, don't try to make him jealous, don't lead him on if you're not into everything.These things are wrong, and if you feel the need to do that then you don't know the meaning of a true relationship. Be honest and open with him. If the two of you are mature then you will handle it correctly. So tak ada masalah and hubungan pun okay. In fact si boyfriend akan bertambah sayang kepada girlfriend, auu :)
6. Be Affectionate
There are various ways to show your affection, some are more obvious than others. Men sometimes like it when a girl gives them a pet name like "Baby" or "Sweetheart." Try not to overdo this, however. It can be a major turn-off if you call them "Mr. Cuddle-Bear", blablabla. Okay yang nih Fyqa bohong ja, heheh. Also, communication is a vital part of a relationship, so make sure that he knows how much you like him. Penting nih wei >,< These types of things do show you're into him, and you want it to last forever, but don't come on so much that you scare him! Hahahah :D Be seductive also people :)
Okay maybe ini sahaja tips yang paling berguna untuk semua perempuan. Fyqa just terpikir pasal point nih. Nanti kalau ada lagi Fyqa updatekan ye. May we all be a good girlfriend :)
Okay, Fyqa suka Azril sebab dia paham Fyqa and vise versa. Dia suka buat Fyqa marah tapi nasib pandai pujuk, ngeeeeheheh. He accept me for who I am and me too :)
May Allah bless us (:
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